When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 1 Peter 2:23
Are your first words those of defense? Is arguing or pleading your case what first comes to mind? Do you deflect the stones or catch them and throw them back in retaliation? Do you slice others with the sharpness of your tongue when you are hurt and insulted? Suffering or threatened? When your husband is hurt and insulted? When your kids are hurt and insulted?
Do you entrust yourself to Him who judges justly? To Him who secures your salvation? To Him who marks your identity? Do you entrust yourself to the one who speaks on your behalf? The One who says what I think/know about you matters? Will you entrust yourself to Him who stands in defense of your reputation? Will you entrust your husband? Your kids?